Marriage has always been a very integral part of one’s life. The feeling of having accomplished everything can only be felt after one has created a family, a fortunate one.
Though times surely have been developing, and career seems to be given more emphasis these days, once a person has established themselves in the said career, the final accomplishment is to settle down with a partner they would be happy to spend the rest of their life with.
Arranged marriage was common in the olden days and to ensure that despite not knowing each other before their marriage, they be a great match, their Kundlis were matched before making a decision.
Marriage is a turning point not only in the personal but also in one’s family life. To sustain the beauty of this relation for one’s entire life, a correct match has to be made and that is precisely why Kundli matching, also known as Horoscope matching, is given so much importance.
This custom is being followed since ancient times. It tells us about the compatibility between the decided match, and also about the compatibility between them and the family or each side.
Kundli matching also checks whether this marriage is beneficial for both the partners in areas apart from marriage. It checks if the couple would lead a content married life and also their health and financial stability.
Getting your Kundli matched from the right place keeps very high importance. This is not something in which one could tolerate any margin of error.
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How does horoscope matching calculate the compatibility between two individuals?
Kundli matching involves the matching of the birth charts of the two individuals. A birth chart is the map of alignment of the celestial bodies, stars, and planets during the time of one’s birth.
The astrologers follow the ‘Gunn Milan method,’ which is also known as the ‘Ashthakoota method.’ In this method, the astrologers calculate and make the reading by knowing the position of the Moon in the charts of the couple.
This method has its entire focus on the eight kootas that look over eight different and highly important aspects of a marriage. In the method, each of these kootas are scored based on the match between the Kundlis of the two individuals. Based on the points earned by the match, they predict the auspiciousness of their marriage.
It is presumed that of the 36 Gunns, at least 18 needs to match for a marriage to be a lucky one.
All these eight kootas looks at unique aspects of a relationship. Health, emotion, intimacy, behavior, compatibility, status, luck, and compassion are all looked over by this method of Gunn matching. For any decided pair, the science of astrology tries to predict how well the two individual’s charts match and benefit each other in the areas of these eight kootas.
Kundli matching for arranged marriages.
In arranged marriages, Kundli matching keeps the utmost importance. The pair is decided by parents or other family members and there is not a proper bond between the future partners yet. As there is not a prior connection between the partners, there is no knowledge about them being a good match or not.
This is what Kundli matching brings to the table, the information and knowledge about whether a match would be prosperous or not. As matching a Kundli tells us if the couple would have compatibility between them or not, in areas like health, behavior, preferences, etc., this custom keeps a very essential role for any arranged marriages taking place.
Kundli matching for love marriages.
People have been changing and with the evolution of traditions, more and more people are moving towards love marriages. As the couple already know each other very well and they know how compatible they are, they feel that getting their Kundli matched is not an important custom for them.
When there is love between the two, why should they bother checking if their Kundli matches or not, right?
Wrong.
Love is not the only thing that is needed for a marriage to sustain and be a happy one. Many other areas affect one’s marital life. Kundli doesn’t limit itself to checking the compatibility between two individual’s behaviour and attitude. It makes predictions about their marriage that we have no way of knowing just from loving that person. It predicts the happiness between the said couple, predicts the possibilities of children and also the life span of the two individuals. It also predicts the benefits each of the individual would gain in their career because of this match. The predictions also include the course of the marriage, the span and duration, and also about the possibilities of divorce.
Knowing all these things can ensure that you and your partner have a good marital life with the least amount of trouble coming your way.
When the Kundlis don’t match.
Before deciding on a match or even after a match has been decided, if for some reason ‘dosh,’ i.e., fault, is found in the Kundli or if in the Gunn Milan method, the match scores lower than the threshold limit of 18, there are things that can be done.
The presence of dosh or lack of compatibility as per the Kundli can result in a marital life that did start with happiness and love but would end in anything but.
This would go unrecognized and ignored if kundlis are not matched before marriage and would lead to a very unhappy marriage in the future. When we get the Kundlis matched and these faults come to our notice, we have the liberty to break the match when there is still time or we get to try and remove or reduce these faults.
There are many astrological remedies, rituals, and special poojas that can be performed to eliminate different kinds of dosh and increase the compatibility between the individuals.
This step is so important to ensure that a marriage is successful and prosperous. As we find all the faults before marriage, all the rituals and remedies are performed at the correct time that the benefits can be seen in the marriage.
The current generation does not rely upon or have much faith in religion or the customs performed before, during, and after marriage. They want clear reasons as to why one needs to do something and if the reasons are not available or important enough, the customs might as well not be done.
Slowly, the number of marriages where this custom is avoided is increasing with time. (And so is the number of divorces.)
The importance of getting the two individuals Kundli matched cannot be stressed enough and thus below, there are some reasons that people should consider before ruling out this custom.
Compatibility of the two Kundlis and how it has the power to affect your personal life and career.
Marriage is believed to be the union of two souls. As cliché as it sounds, after a marriage, the two individuals are said to face the same fate.
Apart from getting to know the compatibility between the two individuals, Kundli even calculates the compassion between them, the level of intimacy they would achieve, and also the compatibility between them at their behavioral and emotional level.
Once the marriage is commenced, their luck coincides and what luck one partner possesses, also reflects in the other person’s life.
In the best and luckiest marriages, the Kundli of the two individuals complements each other’s and this helps them achieve more than they could have achieved individually. But if the Kundlis are harmful and defective together, a person could achieve a lot less than they would have achieved without the marriage they are currently in.
When two individuals unite, the movement of the planets for either of them is said to affect both the individuals. The effect is seen in both the individual’s life. By matching horoscope, the threat of benefits to one’s career and financial stability is also looked at.
Possibilities of having an offspring.
Having children is important for any marriage and even for anyone individually. One major concern that Horoscope matching looks upon is the possibility and compatibility for having an offspring.
A family is considered complete only after a child has been born and blessed the couple with happiness.
A person’s Kundli could mention important details about how they might never have a child. Or maybe the Kundlis of both the two individuals say that having a child is completely possible for them, but the matching of both of the person’s Kundli, things are bound to change, for good or for worse.
There is a chance the horoscope of both the individual as a whole has to suggest that the couple would have difficulty in childbirth or not experience childbirth at all. There is also a chance that both their horoscope would be defective and can harm their child’s horoscope and thus the child’s life.
Such knowledge is extremely important before marriage as it gives the family or the couple, the chance to reconsider the match or perform rituals and astrological remedies on time and avoid anything harmful from happening to their child because of the incompatibility of their Kundlis.
Health and life span of the individuals.
The Kundlis of the two individuals merges after marriage. One person’s Kundli can affect the others in various aspects, health and life span is one of the areas.
There could be some dosh in one’s Kundli that would affect the other individual’s life in a very harmful way. Maybe individually, the person’s Kundli would be free of any fatal health issues but with both of their Kundlis, there comes a high possibility of a dangerous illness or a fatal accident.
This is not something that can be taken lightly or avoided. With this important information, one again gets time to reconsider the match or rely upon astrological remedies and rituals to eliminate the possibility of anything such happening.
Having a long life span of both the partners is very necessary for the marriage to be happy, prosperous, and successful. The loss of one’s partner is very painful and very hard to deal with. It leaves the person lonely and lost.
Kundli matching tells about the life span of both the individuals. It also tells if both the person’s Kundlis together are good for each other or is only going to cause harm to one another. The Kundlis could either be beneficial for each other, complementing and eliminating the threats and doshas of the others, or it could be completely opposite and increase the dosh and risk for the other person.
As the times have been evolving, people are loosening their faith in anything that does not have physical proof. Many do not believe how the position of celestial bodies like planets and stars could write their life or help in predicting their personal or marital life.
They believe that if love is there within a relationship, marrying without getting Kundlis matched is completely feasible. But what they failed to consider is how Kundlis look over the other areas of marital life too, the one which people generally forget to consider and can never predict the future outcomes of.
The reason that the number of divorces is increasing in this generation is because of how people rush into marriages and avoid such important pratha (custom).
The custom of Kundli matching has been going on for years and has always been given beneficial results to marriages. With the information it provides, it prepares one for all that is there in the future of their marital life and also guides them into avoiding anything major that can be known beforehand and eliminate by using astrological remedies and possible rituals.
